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Two sisters became three...

I think its safe to say that in the almost three years since I last posted life happened while we were making other plans. And the best thing was the addition of another little girl. Kristen popped into our life with a bang and turned our world upside down. She has been such a joy to the whole family and is doted on by both her older sisters to such an extent that she may be quite spoilt.
She has also changed my mothering skills as everything I learnt with her sisters went out the window with her. She twice gave us a scare before she was even born and then proceeded to teethe at the early age of 3 months, eating lumpy food from early on and guzzle down a Marie Biscuit In a few chomps. What they say about a third child raising themselves is definitely true and having two older sisters makes growing up a breeze.
Having grown up with brothers and mostly male cousins it seemed written in the stars that I became so lucky as to have been given these three beautiful daughters to raise. Especially given the fact that their father had only brothers too.
Just so we became a family of five...

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